I have been so thankful for a resource I picked up when my husband and I attended a Family Life marriage conference a couple years ago. I knew I wanted to pray for Eric, but wasn't sure how to best do that. When I saw laminated cards that read "lifting my husband in prayer," I purchased copies for myself and my sister.
On the front of the card are 10 specific biblical ways to pray for your husband. This is usually the side I focus on. But recently, I felt that praying for my husband meant praying for myself as his wife.
Here's a selection of the wife's prayer from the back of the card (and excerpted from this book):
"Make me my husband's helpmate, companion, champion, friend and support. Help me to create a peaceful, restful, safe place for him to come home to."
That is my prayer, Lord!