Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Celebrating Nathan
As I was planning for Eric's parents' recent visit, I realized it would be fun to schedule Nathan's party during that time so they could be involved. We had his little party at the local fire station. There were three firefighters there, and they did a great job with the kids. We started out by hearing a fire safety message and watching one of the fireman dress in all of his gear. Then the kids split into two groups and toured two different fire trucks. It was really neat because the kids could explore and sit in them. Then it was time for Nathan's fire truck cake.

Finally, on Nathan's actual birthday =), we served breakfast in bed, as is our family tradition. He chose donuts and his latest obsession, a clementine! (He asked for chicken nuggets for lunch, and pancakes for supper--plenty of carbs all around!)
We also plan to have a little cake and celebration in CO with my side of the family. Quite a happy birthday for that kiddo! Thanks to all who left sweet comments yesterday, too.
Monday, December 20, 2010
FOUR!


Friday, December 17, 2010
Joy Swap Show and Tell


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Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Linkadoos
*Eric's not big on cornbread, so I was a little skeptical when trying Amy's renowned pumpkin cornbread muffins. They did not disappoint--we both loved them--and I will definitely make them again this season! I also tried Amy's pumpkin spice latte (same link) with some friends--yum!
*I haven't bought a can of chicken broth in years because I've either used bouillion or made my own stock by saving the water after cooking chicken. There's a great tutorial here on making your own stock--easy, more flavorful, and free!
*If you want to be inspired or more educated about coupons and grocery deals, I learned via MSM that there are free on-line videos on the subject. I already implement many of these strategies, but this would be a helpful resource for others who are just starting out.
*I've been reading Small Notebook for awhile now, and it is full of gems. The blog's author just wrote her first book, and I enjoyed reading the first chapter here. If you're interested in learning about how to simplify blogging, this would be a great book to check out!
Monday, December 13, 2010
An early Christmas
Eric's parents and sister, along with our niece, Addison, recently visited. We sure packed a lot in during our time together! Here are some pix of the long weekend:
Thanks so much for coming, Grandma, Grandpa, Kendra and Addison!
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
The Mommy Manual
In the last paragraph of the book's introduction, Barbara writes, "Being a mommy and helping your child realize their potential is the best way for you to realize your own." Wow!
Barbara's background is in the Montessori method of teaching so that plays in to her mothering style quite a bit. She talks a lot about observing your children, which she says makes our hearts more tender to them. Among other things, she suggests observing how each child sits, what frustrates or distracts them, and what satisfies them.
Barbara also encourages moms to see the world through our children's eyes: "To understand kids, we first need to step into their very small shoes, cope with the king-sized obstacles they encounter, and process it all with their unsophisticated thinking." And if we think we don't have the patience for that, she reminds us that "any mommy can become more patient with willingness and prayer."
Barbara challenges us to encourage our child's independence by looking for ways to make things possible for him, because she says it's "an important investment in the future." "The ability to discern between rebellion and the drive for independence is key, because mommies need to be doing two things at once: setting boundaries to curb negative behavior and keep the children safe, and encouraging their drive for independence in a positive direction."
The book includes a section on the keys to gracious character, the first of which is gratitude. "If my children are grateful," Barbara writes, "it will be easier for them to be respectful, honest, compassionate, and generous." (Those four qualities are the basis of the additional keys to gracoius character.) In addition, there is a fun section on Barbara's personal recommendations for read-aloud books, family films, and holiday traditions!
In closing the book, Barbara writes, "Motherhood is something that writes itself daily in our hearts, as we are transformed--growing in grace to become the mommies God wants us to be."
Other notes and quotes:
"They {kids} bring out the best and the worst in you even as you're sifting through the best and worst in them."
"As you find more joy and satisfaction in parenting, your child finds more joy nad satisfaction, too, thus bringing you still more joy and satisfaction."
"We all start out as helpless, demanding, and self-centered little creatures. Growing up is all about learning to think beyond our own needs and desires and learning to meet those of others . . . The gift of cheerful, selfless service is a spiritual distinctive that sets us apart and truly enables our light to shine."
"Seven strategies that build a strong work ethic: start early, accept what you get, know your children, teach delayed gratification, equip them to learn, encourage volunteering, and be a role model."
"A mommy with healthy self-esteem, quiet confidence, and a sense that she deserves respect will receive it from her children."

